Stop Test-Driving

An interesting article for the male readers (and perhaps the females too if you wished to know more)

Stop Test-Driving Your Girlfriend

by Michael Lawrence

"How do I know if she's the one?" I can't think of a question I encounter more often among single Christian men. The point of the question is clear enough. But a rich irony dwells beneath the question. In a culture that allows us to choose the person we're going to marry, no one wants to make the wrong choice. Especially if, as Christians, we understand that the choice we make is a choice for life. The question is not merely ironic. If what you're after is a marriage that will glorify God and produce real joy for you and your bride, it's also the wrong question. That's because the unstated goal of the question is " How do I know if she's the one ... for me."

Read more here:
http://www.boundless.org/2005/articles/a0001306.cfm