Hindsight

On hindsight, everything seems clearer. Yet hindsight is a luxury most of us cannot afford most of the time.

Just read my bro's most recent blog entry. A part of me just wished to tell him: Why are you still thinking of her? Get over it already, she's not worth it!! There are better girls out there. But how can I do that? Not when I used to behave in that way too. Heez...and I thought only girls would be that foolish. What I don't understand is that why must she behave in that way? I mean, is an email that difficult to reply? Does she really think she's so wonderful that so many guys are going after her till she doesn't even have time to reply to one email?

Yes, ok, I know I'm being biased here 'cos this is only one side of the story. Maybe she's really busy. Maybe she didn't receive it. Maybe it got sent to her junk folder instead and she deleted it accidentally. So many 'maybes'. Reminded me of the rationalization theory i.e. finding excuses for certain behaviour.

Perhaps at times we'd prefer to indulge in our own little fantasies and keep on hoping and wishing than face the cold, hard truth. Then again, as I've mentioned before, who am I to comment?